This bonus episode of Absolutely Focused Radio (Season 4, Bonus 2) dives deep into the science and soul of tiny habits and how they create massive transformation over time.Daniel “ThaBudd” Nelson is joined by Beeyou and Jane Marie from the Sobriety Crew for a powerful, insightful convo on:✅ Rewiring the brain through micro-habits
✅ Why big changes fail (and small ones stick)
✅ Real examples from recovery programs
✅ Financial & mindset routines that compound
✅ Affirmations + Do’s & Don’ts to keep you groundedWhether you're working on sobriety, mindset, or just trying to stay consistent — this episode is for you.
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Absolutely Focused Radio bonus episode, The Power of Tiny Habits

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in the Silence where the Shadow stream I gather strength.

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Welcome back to Absolutely Focused Radio. I'm your host, Anna

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Harrigo and we have a special bonus episode for you today.

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Joining us are Bu and Jane Marie from the Sobriety Crew,

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and they're here to share some incredible insights about how

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small changes create massive transformations. Before we dive in, remember

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every Friday at twelve am, a brand new episode drops

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on all podcast platforms, so make sure you're subscribed so

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you never miss out. Now let's get into it with

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Bu and Jane Marie.

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You know what blows my mind. Scientists have discovered that

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tiny daily habits can literally rewire our brains more effectively

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than massive life overhauls. It's completely changing how we think

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about personal transformation.

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That's fascinating, especially since we're always hearing about these dramatic

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one hundred and eighty degree life changes. How exactly does

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this rewiring process work?

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Well, think about it like creating a path through fresh snow.

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The first time you walk it, you're trudging through deep drifts,

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but with each pass that path becomes more defined, more automatic.

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That's exactly what's happening in our neural pathways with these small,

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consistent actions.

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So you're telling me these tiny changes actually have a

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measurable impact on our brain structure precisely.

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And here's where it gets really interesting. Research from MIT

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has shown that these microhabits can increase neural density in

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specific brain regions by up to thirty percent in just

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sixty days. It's like building a super highway for positive behaviors.

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That really helps explain why some of my clients struggle

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when trying to make huge changes all at once. They're

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essentially fighting against their brains established neural architecture.

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You know what's even more or fascinating. I've been studying

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recovery programs, and the most successful ones don't focus on

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the big milestone moments. Instead, they break everything down into

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these tiny, manageable victories.

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Oh, tell me more about that. What kind of small

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wins are we talking about?

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So? Get this one program I looked at starts with

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something as simple as drinking a glass of water first

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thing in the morning, just that one action. But here's

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the brilliant part. It becomes this anchor point for other

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positive changes throughout the day that.

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Reminds me of something I read about habit stacking, where

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you build new habits by connecting them to existing ones.

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Exactly right. And what's really cool is how this applies

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across different areas of life. Take financial habits, for example,

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Studies show that people who track their spending for just

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five minutes a day are eighty four percent more likely

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to reach their financial goals.

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Those numbers are incredible, and it makes so much sense

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when you think about how overwhelming big goals can feel.

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Before we wrap up, Jane and I want to leave

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you with some powerful affirmations to carry into your week.

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I am capable of making small positive changes every single day.

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My tiny actions today are building the foundation for my

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best tomorrow.

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I celebrate every small victory knowing that progress is progress,

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no matter the size.

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I trust the process, and I honor my journey one

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step at a time.

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And now for our Friday does and.

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Don'ts, do start with just one micro habit this week.

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Pick something so small that feels almost too easy.

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Don't a beat yourself up if you miss a day.

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Progress isn't about perfection, It's about consistency over time filtering.

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Do track your tiny winds, write them down, celebrate them

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and watch how they compound.

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Don't mind compare your beginning to someone else's. Middle journey

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is uniquely yours.

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Do remember that every expert was once a beginner, and

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every transformation started with a single small choice. Stay awesome

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and be you.

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Thank you so much to be you and Jane Marie

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from the Sobriety crew for this incredible bonus episode. Remember

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every Friday at twelve am, a new episode drops on

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all podcast platforms Spotify, Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, and everywhere

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you love to listen. Stay awesome, stay focused, and keep

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making those tiny changes that lead to big transformations. Ed

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Guys said on this Fadi Frail too long a play

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the silent shallow game.

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Hashtags can't define my point of view, but here's my journey.

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It's time to break through.

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His ability. I'm learning to embrace.

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In this vulnerability.

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I find my place.

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No more hiding.

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I'm rising from the ground.

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Every spised story, let me shall myself in the shadows

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of silence of fotnight.

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Now I'm shining bright.

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Step down into the light